Saturday, April 18, 2009

Crucial Conversations for Crucial Relationships

This is a wonderful article shared by Sister Cathy.  I've posted an excerpt of it below.

"Father and son have just spent an entire afternoon having fun—good for the relationship, right? Then, they walk past the garage and Dad sees his tools scattered on the workbench. He explodes, “You know better than that! When you use the tools, you put them back where they go! You are so irresponsible! Get in there and put them away NOW!”

Which interaction had the strongest influence on the father/son relationship? The long afternoon of fun or the few moments of anger, labeling, and bullying?"

(For the full article, click here)